I've had the same problem for awhile and spent a lot of money.on EBay and nylon sites looking for.pantyhose.that have the silken feel I remember. My wife (we have been together three years) is very awesomely into it for me, and wears pantyhose practically daily, but many bands or styles I purchased years ago either no.longer exist or have changed. Best I have found so far is Fiore. Still looking for suggestions. And her technique is amazing.